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A reader asks:
"Do you think that by spreading different levels of intactivist art, it will help increase awareness and maintain a stronger impression the unsure and undecided? If so, how do we get those artist the attention they need to help spread this message?"
Art imitates life imitates art.  Yes, I do believe it helps raise awareness.
Comments welcome.

I've heard that a "partial" (cutting off only the tip of the foreskin rather than the whole thing) is used because some doctors realize it's impossible to determine how large the penis of this child will be when he's an adult and they're leaving more skin now to avoid problems with erections and sexual dysfunction. I'd love to hear from readers what their thoughts are on this.
Basically it was a no-brainer for me. I didn't even know what circumcision was until after my daughter was born 9 years ago. I started researching the subject because I knew the next one would be a boy. As soon as I found out there is actually a part of the penis *removed*... amputated... that was it for me, I was dead set against it. I wasn't even aware of doctors not using anesthesia until only a few months ago. That knowledge made me feel even stronger about being against it. I became an intactivist because I do not believe in altering or removing body parts from a non-consenting individual.
I am cut, am manually restoring at the moment. Basically for manual tugging you pull on the skin in different methods and tug it for a set amount of time(1-60mins+ even) 1+ times a day everyday so you regain skin.
I'm doing this to fit tlc-x the strapless restoration device then it can do the tugging for me, and it'll have the retaining cone to regain glans sensitivity. ~Greg
Here are a few links that explain foreskin restoration:
 http://norm.org/whyrestore.html 
Here is a video of Aubrey Taylor explaining foreskin restoration. She's really informative; check it out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moII4GEVPv4
Here's a video of Ron Low and his Wife explaining foreskin restoration and how amazing it has been for them: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=raDMCRxIUbI
And watch the video above that one first for another explanation^^^^^
(There are also permanent links on the side of the blog here.  ~Note from Monica.)
Look at this penis to see how foreskin restoration undoes some of the damage: (*NSFW Graphic Education Nudity*) http://www.foreskinrestore.com/restored_foreskin.html
 http://www.foreskinrestore.com/results_1-24months.html 
http://www.foreskinrestore.com/latest_results.html
How a restored foreskin moves: http://www.foreskinrestore.com/movesvideo.html
The restored skin will be there forever, guys stop restoring based on their preference of how much skin they want. Some want a reallly reaaaaally long foreskin , some want just enough to cover the glans, etc.
Here's a coverage index to show the different stages of foreskin coverage(NSFW Nudity) : http://www.newforeskin.biz/CI/CIchart.htm
And yes it is basically creating new skins cells, so it's not like creating stretch marks like aubrey taylor said, it's tugging =)
And if you just stop restoring completely instead of shrinking, because of sexual activity and masturbation the skin will slightly slight slightly get a bit longer not that much but yeah. So instead of shrinking it's always growing but not substancially if you stop cold turkey lol
To see with your own eyes the damage of genital cutting(NSFW graphic nudity): "-
The keratinization or drying out and building of a layer of keratin of the glans and penile mucosa to protect the penis from air and clothing due to the loss of the prepuce's protection further reduces sensitivity. Here is a picture of a penis with a keratinized glans v a shiny intact penis: http://intactivists.blogspot.com/2011/05/keratinization-and-circumcision-status_315.html
(Thanks for using our example! ~Monica)
And aesthetically(visually) a cut v intact penis picture to visually to show the damage: (*NSFW Graphic Nudity*) http://hphotos-snc6.fbcdn.net
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http://www.cutedaveyboy.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/1240942124311.jpg
http://www.circumstraint.com/gallery_images.html "
However this is the most important thing you will read. An article on "The Vulnerability of Men" to see how to talk to men about genital cutting and restoration a touchy subject: http://www.udonet.com/circumcision/vincent/vulnerability_of_men.html
(Udonet did a FANTASTIC job with that article.  ~Monica)
However after learning the truth and what I can do for myself I've been given a better image.
This article on "The Vulnerability of Men" will help you on talking to your husband about circumcision, keeping your kids intact, his feelings etc: www.udonet.com/circumcision/vincent/vulnerability_of_men.html
There are devices that you can use to induce mitosis in the skin to cause growth. These can be worn under the clothes during normal daily activities.Here are some of the products:http://tlctugger.com/products.htm
You can also accomplish the same effect manually depending on how much time you can devote to "tugging".There are some different methods outlined here:http://www.restoringforeskin.org/category/public/manual-tugging
There is a forum for men who are restoring. There are over 200,000 members and all are using different techniques.Here is the welcome page for those just starting out:http://www.foreskin-restoration.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=3
Here is another part of the forum that talks about additional methods such as taping and retaining:http://www.foreskin-restoration.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=7
Here is a great low-cost alternative to buying a retaining device:http://www.restoringtally.com/blog/2009/12/baby-bottle-nipple-retainers
A good reference to have on hand is the Coverage index. It has different coverage numbers depending on how much foreskin a person has or how tightly they were cut. Certain tugging methods work best depending on how much foreskin you have. It's a good reference point to look at the pictures to figure out where you are to start, where you want to stop, and what you can expect along the way.http://www.newforeskin.biz/CI/CIchart.htm
There is an interesting in-depth blog by a man just starting his restoration journey with the TLC tugger device.http://lizarddick.wordpress.com/
For circumcision info, intactivism, and keeping your kids intact, more info on restoration, etc: www.WholeNetwork.org
 -By Greg and Bri
 
MIL: “They (the parent’s) have                     decided not to circumcise BOY” 
                  Me: “They need to circumcise him” 
                  MIL: “No Lynn, they’ve done a lot of research and                     they’ve decided not to”
              Me: “He definitely needs                     to be circumcised!”
This goes on for a while until Lynn finally reveals her very important reason for having a baby boy circumcised:
                  MIL: “I’m not sure that you’re aware of all the new                     research Lynn” 
                  Me: “The hell with the research. He needs to be                     circumcised” 
                   MIL: (Starting to get visibly upset…agitated even)                      “Why? Why do you keep saying that Lynn?” Me:                     “It’s just really important” 
MIL: “WHY? WHY                     LYNN, WHY?”
               
                  Me: “Why MIL? I’ll tell you why!”
Me: “are you sure you want to know?”
Me:  “Because...”                     (wait for it … wait for it!) “… if he  doesn’t get                     circumcised there’s no way that kid is  EVER going to                     get a BLOWJOB!!!”
              
           
            
Let those last words sink in before you go                 on.
           
           
              Then, at the very end of this blog post, she writes:
I’ve never had a run in with a guy with a hoodie and I really can’t say whether the kid ever got a blowjob but I was just doing my part, watching out for the welfare of a minor. Do you agree? Or disagree? I really don’t care…I was just asking.
           
              Lynn, care or not, you invited comments.
           
               This all goes back to men being judged and not accepted                  in this society. Their penises will never be good                  enough. They are taught to be ashamed of what they have,                  even before birth. The same attitude that I                  struggle with every single day, knowing how much damage                  it does.  These messages go in deep.
           
               I'm not a man, but I am a mother. I am a mother of two                  boys. I have a vested interest in how these attitudes                  affect men because my boys will one day be men. I have                  also observed how these attitudes affect relationships,                  mine included.
           
              We need to get back to  basics. Go all the way back to                 the beginning. Are boys  born with "extra" skin because                 there's no purpose for  it? Why are we so arrogant, as a                 society, that we  believe that we need to alter someone                 else's genitals to  fit into our idea of "perfect",                 despite all the                   risks that come with surgery,  despite that this is                 not our body to make these  decisions, despite causing                 major emotional and physical  trauma to the point of a                 majority of men in our society  regularly display symptoms                    of Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome for what was                 done to them *before conscious memory*?
           
               I say before conscious memory, because they love to                  remind you that babies won't remember this little                  "snip". I don't agree. I have been taught that the body,                  every cell in the body, in fact, holds memory of every                  trauma that happens. Counseling and therapy teaches this concept.  Very important and effective therapeutic                 techniques have  been developed around this whole idea.
           
               If you are physically assaulted before you reach the age                  of 2, does that mean it won't affect you? If you are                  drugged and lose consciousness and raped, does that not                  count?
           
              I propose that the pain and  trauma of infant/child                 circumcision is not only  unnecessary, but damaging.
           
              And it  enforces the belief that men are not perfect,                 that their  penises are not beautiful, that there's                 nothing they  can do about it, that they will never be                 good enough.
           
               Also, joking about cutting off pieces of a person's                  genitals minimizes the trauma the cut individual                  experiences, sending another message that that person's                  feelings are unimportant.
           
               Interestingly, Lynn's original post got some attention                  again recently and attracted some pro-intact comments. Many of                  the comments were thoughtful and educated. I got the                  distinct impression, though, that many people did not                  like the suggestion that circumcision is unnecessary.                  Lynn followed up with a post dated June 15, 2011 which                  she titled "In                    which i respond to the bullshit"  (her -lack of-                 capitalization), implying that having to  be forced to                 have this conversation, or the subject  matter, is                 "bullshit", and therefore is unimportant.
           
               This reflects perfectly the way women are taught to                  behave in this North American society: shame your men,                  pick them apart, then when someone speaks up, silence                  them quickly. Ignore the issue, ignore the shame, ignore                  the damage that is done to our men, and then tell them not to  express any emotion about it!  (Example:  "Big boys don't cry.")
           
               Lynn also mentions at the very end of the second post                  that her family is Jewish and her son's circumcision was                  part of a religious ceremony. I really hate bringing                  religion into this, so I'll just mention the fact that                  there are plenty of links here on the blog for anyone to                  start their own research into the religious aspect. I am                  certainly not the proper person to present reasons and                  examples for not doing this for religion. I will,                  however, say that all children should be allowed the                  same religious freedom adults enjoy in this country, and                  be allowed to grow up and make up their own minds about                  what God they will or will not believe in, and not have                  to endure permanent marks on their bodies that are a                  symbol of their parents' beliefs. There are many cases                  of children growing up to                    follow a completely different spiritual path than                 the one in which they were raised:
More  than                   a third of the population practices a religion  other                   than what they were raised in.
               (quote: "More than one-quarter of American adults, 28%,                  have left the faith in which they were raised in favor                  of another religion, or no religion at all. If change in                  affiliation from one type of Protestantism to another is                  included, 44% of adults have either switched religious                  affiliation, moved from being unaffiliated with any                  religion to being affiliated with a particular faith, or                  dropped any connection to a specific religious tradition                  altogether.")
            
And yes, Lynn, I have a sense of humor. That's not the point in objecting to your blog post (or "funny story" as you call it) as you suggested with other reader comments. I just don't find anything funny at all about nonconsensual, unnecessary cosmetic surgery on a person too young to understand what is being forced upon them.
And like you are so fond of saying yourself, if you don't like what I have to say, move on. Or, to quote you exactly: "This blog is not for the light-hearted or easily offended. If either one of those descriptions applies to you, I suggest you start drinking before you read this blog. A sense of humor is suggested. If you don't have one that sucks for you... find one and get a life!" I am a person that is extremely hard to offend and if you can't handle this blog's truth about child circumcision, then I suggest to you that you should not be so self-righteous and flippant about cutting up their genitals and assuming what their sexual preferences will be when they grow up.
Disclaimer: I did not write this to try to change Lynn's mind. Her son is grown now and I probably wouldn't have changed her mind anyway. I wrote this in an attempt to dispel some myths and present the fact that this surgery is unnecessary. I am not trying to start an internet war. I want readers to understand why I believe Lynn's story is not "funny", but in fact damaging. You know what is funny? This:
What do a Rubik's Cube and a penis have in common?
The more you play with them, the harder they get.
On that note, I wish you all a fantastic day.                 
           
           
           
              More research:
              
                Psychological Impact of Circumcision
              
                British Journal of Medical Society report
Medical                   Studies on Circumcision
            






New Team Member Marshall
Please join me in welcoming the newest member of our intactivist blog team, who joins us as a writer.



 1.These first two pictures are most important because we must remember that this baby, and every baby, does have a mother (and, of course, a father too). New parents are usually nave and trusting of the medical establishment when they go to the hospital to give birth. They may be overwhelmed by unfamiliar and frightening procedures and equipment. Amidst the emotional upheaval and physical challenge of labor and impending birth, parents often face a bombardment of admittance procedures upon entering the hospital. In this state of excitement and confusion, parents frequently sign circumcision consent forms with scarcely any thought. (In the past many babies were routinely circumcised without any parental consent.) Some medical professionals urge reluctant parents to agree to this operation. Others blindly accept this as one more "cog" in the hospital machinery, and give advice that is vague and neutral at best.
1.These first two pictures are most important because we must remember that this baby, and every baby, does have a mother (and, of course, a father too). New parents are usually nave and trusting of the medical establishment when they go to the hospital to give birth. They may be overwhelmed by unfamiliar and frightening procedures and equipment. Amidst the emotional upheaval and physical challenge of labor and impending birth, parents often face a bombardment of admittance procedures upon entering the hospital. In this state of excitement and confusion, parents frequently sign circumcision consent forms with scarcely any thought. (In the past many babies were routinely circumcised without any parental consent.) Some medical professionals urge reluctant parents to agree to this operation. Others blindly accept this as one more "cog" in the hospital machinery, and give advice that is vague and neutral at best. 2. It is important to remember that new parents do love their babies and sincerely want to do what is best for them. But usually they know very little about hospital procedures and are shielded from what goes on behind the scenes. Certainly if more parents were shown exactly what will happen to their infants if they undergo circumcision, more parents would think twice about choosing this painful and unnecessary operation.
2. It is important to remember that new parents do love their babies and sincerely want to do what is best for them. But usually they know very little about hospital procedures and are shielded from what goes on behind the scenes. Certainly if more parents were shown exactly what will happen to their infants if they undergo circumcision, more parents would think twice about choosing this painful and unnecessary operation.
3. In this picture the baby is sleeping peacefully in his crib in the hospital nursery, blissfully unaware of the trauma that he will soon experience.
 4. This picture also shows him sleeping peacefully, in a row of cribs alongside several other babies.
4. This picture also shows him sleeping peacefully, in a row of cribs alongside several other babies. 5. Newborns commonly drift peacefully between sleep and blissful semi-awakeness. The newborn infant is innocent and trusting of this world and expects that adults will take care of his needs and protect him from har
5. Newborns commonly drift peacefully between sleep and blissful semi-awakeness. The newborn infant is innocent and trusting of this world and expects that adults will take care of his needs and protect him from har 6. This picture shows the infant strapped in place to the Circumstraint © board, a specially designed plastic board that is molded with depressions that fit the shape of an infant's body. Velcro straps hold his arms and legs securely in place so that he cannot move. Much of the rest of his body will be covered with sterile drapes to help prevent contamination of the circumcision wound. The baby's genitals have been covered with a brownish antiseptic solution - probably Betadine.
6. This picture shows the infant strapped in place to the Circumstraint © board, a specially designed plastic board that is molded with depressions that fit the shape of an infant's body. Velcro straps hold his arms and legs securely in place so that he cannot move. Much of the rest of his body will be covered with sterile drapes to help prevent contamination of the circumcision wound. The baby's genitals have been covered with a brownish antiseptic solution - probably Betadine. 7. In this picture the doctor appears to be loosening the baby's foreskin from the glans ("head") of his penis. Normally, for almost all newborn infant boys, the foreskin is tightly sealed to the glans and the opening is a tiny "pinhole". If he is to undergo circumcision, the opening must first be enlarged by cutting it and the foreskin must be separated from the glans. This involves forcibly tearing one layer of skin away from another and is extremely painful for the baby.
7. In this picture the doctor appears to be loosening the baby's foreskin from the glans ("head") of his penis. Normally, for almost all newborn infant boys, the foreskin is tightly sealed to the glans and the opening is a tiny "pinhole". If he is to undergo circumcision, the opening must first be enlarged by cutting it and the foreskin must be separated from the glans. This involves forcibly tearing one layer of skin away from another and is extremely painful for the baby. 8. Now the sterile drape has been placed over the baby as the little patient cannot anticipate what next awaits him.
8. Now the sterile drape has been placed over the baby as the little patient cannot anticipate what next awaits him. 9. The sterile drape that is designed for use when a baby is circumcised completely covers the baby's body, leaving only a small hole where his penis sticks out.
9. The sterile drape that is designed for use when a baby is circumcised completely covers the baby's body, leaving only a small hole where his penis sticks out. 10. The first part of the circumcision operation is called the dorsal slit. Since the opening of the baby's foreskin is very tiny, it must be made larger before the “bell” part of the circumcision instrument can be inserted and the clamp applied.
10. The first part of the circumcision operation is called the dorsal slit. Since the opening of the baby's foreskin is very tiny, it must be made larger before the “bell” part of the circumcision instrument can be inserted and the clamp applied. 11. This picture continues to show the dorsal slit procedure and the baby's obvious distress. When skin is pinched, clamped, cut and torn, this causes pain.
11. This picture continues to show the dorsal slit procedure and the baby's obvious distress. When skin is pinched, clamped, cut and torn, this causes pain. 13. The operation continues as the baby continues to cry. Most babies are not anesthetized for circumcision (although anesthesia is usually administered for more serious, necessary operations performed on infants.)
13. The operation continues as the baby continues to cry. Most babies are not anesthetized for circumcision (although anesthesia is usually administered for more serious, necessary operations performed on infants.) 14. In this picture the "bell" of the circumcision clamp is applied. This is a small bell shaped piece of metal that fits over the glans ("head") of the penis and under the foreskin before it is cut off.
14. In this picture the "bell" of the circumcision clamp is applied. This is a small bell shaped piece of metal that fits over the glans ("head") of the penis and under the foreskin before it is cut off. 15. This picture shows the outer clamp applied. There are many different devices used for circumcision. What is shown here is the Gomco © clamp. When this clamp is applied, there is a small hole in it where the baby's penis, the "bell" and the foreskin all fit into place. Once the baby's penis is placed in the hole in the clamp, the clamp is screwed down so that the foreskin is smashed between the metal bell and the outer clamp.
15. This picture shows the outer clamp applied. There are many different devices used for circumcision. What is shown here is the Gomco © clamp. When this clamp is applied, there is a small hole in it where the baby's penis, the "bell" and the foreskin all fit into place. Once the baby's penis is placed in the hole in the clamp, the clamp is screwed down so that the foreskin is smashed between the metal bell and the outer clamp. 17. The newly circumcised penis. Normally the freshly exposed glans is bright red like this and will not look like the rest of his skin until after it heals up after several days. When a baby is left intact his glans is normally well hidden under his foreskin and not readily visible. If his foreskin is retracted (again, we urge that this not be done!), his glans will also appear red like this. The glans of an intact older child or adult also looks somewhat pinkish or reddish, distinctly different from that of the circumcised male. The glans of an intact male remains much more sensitive and the intact penis is a much different type of organ. The surface of the foreskin protected glans is similar to the skin in the inside of the mouth or the inside of the vagina. The absence of the foreskin makes what is intended to be an inside organ into an outside organ. The glans of the circumcised individual becomes much thicker, less sensitive, and more like outside skin as it is in constant contact with air or clothing.
17. The newly circumcised penis. Normally the freshly exposed glans is bright red like this and will not look like the rest of his skin until after it heals up after several days. When a baby is left intact his glans is normally well hidden under his foreskin and not readily visible. If his foreskin is retracted (again, we urge that this not be done!), his glans will also appear red like this. The glans of an intact older child or adult also looks somewhat pinkish or reddish, distinctly different from that of the circumcised male. The glans of an intact male remains much more sensitive and the intact penis is a much different type of organ. The surface of the foreskin protected glans is similar to the skin in the inside of the mouth or the inside of the vagina. The absence of the foreskin makes what is intended to be an inside organ into an outside organ. The glans of the circumcised individual becomes much thicker, less sensitive, and more like outside skin as it is in constant contact with air or clothing. 18. In this picture a bandage is being applied to the baby's penis. It is applied in a way that the baby can urinate through the end, and obviously must be changed whenever the baby wets or soils his diaper. Today it is less common for caretakers to bandage a baby's penis following circumcision. Often only a tiny gauze strip saturated with petroleum jelly is applied around the wound. Parents or care providers are usually instructed to apply petroleum jelly or a similar ointment to the wound as it heals. This helps to protect it from urine and makes it somewhat less sore.
18. In this picture a bandage is being applied to the baby's penis. It is applied in a way that the baby can urinate through the end, and obviously must be changed whenever the baby wets or soils his diaper. Today it is less common for caretakers to bandage a baby's penis following circumcision. Often only a tiny gauze strip saturated with petroleum jelly is applied around the wound. Parents or care providers are usually instructed to apply petroleum jelly or a similar ointment to the wound as it heals. This helps to protect it from urine and makes it somewhat less sore. 19. Now the sterile drape has been removed but the bandage is still in place and the baby is still strapped down to the Circumstraint © board. Another Circumstraint © board awaits in the background for the next baby. Infant circumcision normally takes around 10-15 minutes.
19. Now the sterile drape has been removed but the bandage is still in place and the baby is still strapped down to the Circumstraint © board. Another Circumstraint © board awaits in the background for the next baby. Infant circumcision normally takes around 10-15 minutes.Send us an EMAIL.
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